Appreciation

Before you go out into the world seeking more, you need to cultivate an appreciation for what you already have.  It's very difficult to go from saying 'No, no, no' to the world around you to saying 'Yes' to that which you want.   If you instead focus on saying 'Yes' to the things in your life that you currently appreciate, then you will automatically say 'Yes' to more of that.  

Ironically, if all your focus in on the things you don't like, it's effectively saying 'yes' to more of that too.