"The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness; to an opponent, tolerance; to a friend, your heart; to your child, a good example; to a father, deference; to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, respect; to all men, charity."
— Benjamin Franklin: Founding Father of the United States of America
To often we get caught up in one-ups-man-ship, making ourselves 'right' and others 'wrong', holding grudges, judging others, etc., etc.
We did not come here for that. We were born out of Eternal Love to Love. Being true to yourself and being loving to others is the only true victory.
